Author: Dr. Deirdre Cavener

  • My Mother

    My Mother

    Posted by my daughter on Facebook …
    “Lol this happens all the time!!! Thank god my mother is a beautiful and brilliant women!!” ~Danielle

    my mother

  • Letter from my Daughter: Brittany

    Letter from my Daughter: Brittany

    Mother Daughter

    Mom,

    You are by far the most amazing woman I have ever met.  You have always been there for Danielle and me whenever and where ever we needed you. You’ve been through hell and back with us and I will never forget that you’ve stuck around through it all; even when I’m sure it would’ve been easier on you to leave. I’ve never really took the time to sit you down and say thank you for all that you’ve done for us through the years. So, thank you, I appreciate it in more ways than one. You’ve taught me so may things and I am so grateful that you are my mother and a huge part of my life. You are one of the only people I can really count on to be there when I need someone. You’re always there to listen when I call you excited about something or crying and I can’t even begging to tell you how much that means to me. You’re such an amazing person, mother, and friend. I have yet to meet someone that hasn’t fallen in love with you and your personality from just seconds of meeting you. I love that I have such a giving and devoted mother. I love you so much, bigger than the whole side world.

    Merry Christmas Mom,

    Brittany
    December 2008
    Age: 20

  • Dear Mom: A Letter from my Daughter

    Dear Mom,

    You have always been there for me no matter how big or small the situation. God only knows all the times my teenage years woke you from sleep at two in the morning.  Thank heaven those days are gone!!  But even when I knew I was wrong I knew I could always count on you to be on my side. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. Instilling in me all of life’s lessons including giving back. I will never forget when we volunteered for Toys for Tots and how that little task made me feel so good. Nobody can compare to your gracious and outgoing attitude in everything and everyone you encounter in life. You make people want to be better themselves just by your presence. Some of us just need a little Deirdre motivation in our lives. I just want you to know that you  are the inspiration and the light that this world needs. You have always put Brittany and I first with our passions and I am so grateful but now it is your time. Enjoy your life, don’t hold back and live like you have wings!!! My wish is for everyone to have someone that just a little resembles you in their life.  I know sometimes I give you a hard time and that you worry about where I am in my life right now but you don’t have to worry because you are my mother. You are my motivation even when I don’t want you to be … haha! You have taught me to be strong, resilient, confident, kinda and smart and everything that you are and everything you stand for. I love you with all of my heart and I hope one day I will be half the mother you are to me!

    Merry Christmas Mom,

    Danielle
    December 2008
    Age: 19

  • Straightjacket by Alanis Morissette

    Alanis Morissette
    Lyrics

    Something so benign for me construed as cruelty
    Such a difference between who I am and who you see

    Conclusions you come to of me routinely incorrect
    I don’t know who you’re talking to with such fucking disrespect

    This shit’s making me crazy
    The way you nullify what’s in my head
    You say one thing do another
    And argue that’s not what you did
    Your way’s making me mental
    How you filter as skewed interpret
    I swear you won’t be happy til
    I am bound in a straight jacket

    Talking with you’s like talking to a sive that can’t hear me
    You fight me tooth and nail to disavow what’s happening

    Your resistance to a mirror I feel screaming from your body
    One day I’ll introduce myself and you’ll see you’ve not yet met me

    This shit’s making me crazy
    The way you nullify what’s in my head
    You say one thing do another
    And argue that’s not what you did
    Your way’s making me mental
    How you filter as skewed interpret
    I swear you won’t be happy til
    I am bound in a straight jacket

    Grand dissonance
    The strings of my puppet are cut
    The end of an era
    Your discrediting’s lost my consent

    This shit’s making me crazy
    The way you nullify what’s in my head
    You say one thing do another
    And argue that’s not what you did
    Your way’s making me mental
    How you filter as skewed interpret
    I swear you won’t be happy til
    I am bound in a straight jacket

  • Note from the Universe 02-03-2014

    Love these notes …

    Deirdre Cavener, you know that feeling?

    That sense of eagerness for the moment. Optimism for the future. And confidence that you are exactly “when” and where you should be. That feeling that makes dark days lighter and light days brighter. That precedes breakthroughs, conquests, and euphoria.

    Yes, that feeling!

    Well, it doesn’t just come.

    You have to give it to yourself.

    Go on.

    The Universe

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  • Get it Right, You Have One Chance

    Get it Right, You Have One Chance

    “I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to my fellow-creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.” – Stephen Grellet

  • Sharon Stone Says IT

    “Women know how to fake orgasm. Men know how to fake an entire relationship.” ~ Sharon Stone